One of the most common ways for children to learn about compassion is through their first teachers -- their parents and caregivers. The best way to teach compassion is to model compassion in your actions.

This can be as simple as saying “sorry” if you find yourself short-tempered with your child or spouse. It could also mean caring for your child when she is hurt or sick.

These real-life moments are golden opportunities for your child to observe true compassion.

 

 

 

 

 

 

As your child learns and experiences more complex feelings, take the opportunity to talk about these emotions when you read books or watch movies together. Encourage her to be compassionate, even extending sympathetic awareness toward the storybook villains.

For example, if you read Cinderella together, ask her why she thinks the stepsisters decided to be mean to Cinderella. You can ask: “Why do you think they are jealous of her?”

You can also point out scenarios where compassion is used in books or in daily life.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Begin by asking your child whether the people were being compassionate or not. Extend the example by asking: “How they could have acted differently?” If you come across a frightening situation such as a car accident, take some time to focus on the people who are helping to fix the situation.

If it is appropriate for your family, you can also consider having your child care for a pet. This is an amazing way to learn and practice compassion as well as responsibility, unconditional love and empathy.